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aria-current=\"page\">Settling Into Daycare<\/span><\/li>\n    <\/ol>\n  <\/div>\n<\/nav>\n\n<!-- ============ HERO ============ -->\n<section class=\"phero\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <div>\n      <span class=\"vac\"><span class=\"dot\"><\/span>Parent guide &middot; 13 minute read<\/span>\n      <h1>Settling Into <span class=\"box\">Daycare<\/span><\/h1>\n      <p class=\"hero-p\">Settling child into daycare usually takes somewhere between two and six weeks, and tears at drop-off are part of the process, not a sign it is failing. This guide walks through the first weeks step by step: how to prepare, a drop-off routine that works, how to handle tears, and how to tell when your child is settling well.<\/p>\n      <div class=\"pfacts\">\n        <div><b>2-6 wks<\/b><span>Typical settling time<\/span><\/div>\n        <div><b>1<\/b><span>Short goodbye<\/span><\/div>\n        <div><b>Normal<\/b><span>Tears at drop-off<\/span><\/div>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"btnrow\">\n        <a class=\"btn-y\" href=\"#lelc-settle-time\">See the Timeline<\/a>\n        <a class=\"btn-w\" href=\"\/elc\/enrolment\/book-a-tour\/\">Book a Tour<\/a>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    <figure class=\"pfig\">\n      <div class=\"ph\">\n        <img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/stagingloom.com\/elc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/lead-elc-educator-child-st-ives-playground.webp\" alt=\"An educator holding a happy child in the playground, the goal of settling child into daycare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" fetchpriority=\"high\">\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"stick\">From tears to waves goodbye<\/div>\n    <\/figure>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<section class=\"sec\" style=\"padding-bottom:0;\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;\">\n      <p class=\"lead-p\">The first weeks of childcare are often harder on parents than on children. You hand over the person you love most to people you have only just met, and then you walk away while they cry. It is completely understandable to find that hard, and to wonder whether you are doing the right thing.<\/p>\n      <p>The reassuring news is that settling follows a fairly predictable pattern. Most children protest at first, adjust within a few weeks, and go on to love their days, their friends and their educators. What you do in those early weeks can make the adjustment smoother and shorter, for both of you.<\/p>\n      <p>This guide is for any family starting care, wherever you have enrolled. If your child is starting with us, our page on <a href=\"\/elc\/enrolment\/orientation-and-settling\/\">orientation at our centre<\/a> explains our own process. For more practical guides, see our <a href=\"\/elc\/parent-resources\/\">parenting resources hub<\/a>.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 1 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec\">\n  <div class=\"wrap split\">\n    <div>\n      <span class=\"kick\">What to expect<\/span>\n      <h2>What settling actually looks like<\/h2>\n      <p class=\"lead-p\">Settling looks like a gradual shift from protest to comfort. At first, many children cry or cling at drop-off, then calm within minutes once distracted. Over the following weeks the tears shorten, children start to join in, eat and rest at the centre, and eventually walk in happily.<\/p>\n      <p>Progress is rarely a straight line. A child might breeze in for the first three days, then start crying in week two once they realise this is a regular thing.<\/p>\n      <p>That second-week wobble is so common that educators expect it. It usually means your child now understands the routine, not that something has gone wrong.<\/p>\n      <p>Tears at the door and a happy day inside often go together. The crying you see lasts minutes; the day you do not see is mostly play.<\/p>\n      <p>Other signs matter as much as drop-off. Is your child eating, resting and playing? Are they talking about an educator or friend at home?<\/p>\n      <p>Settling child into daycare also looks different at different ages. Babies under about eight months often adapt quickly to new carers; toddlers tend to protest loudest; preschoolers may be excited one day and anxious the next.<\/p>\n      <p>Children who have never been apart from a parent may take longer. Those used to grandparents or a playgroup often settle faster.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"stack\">\n      <div class=\"side card\">\n        <p class=\"side-h\">Common in the first weeks<\/p>\n        <ul class=\"ticks\">\n          <li>Crying at drop-off<\/li>\n          <li>Clinginess at home<\/li>\n          <li>Tiredness and early nights<\/li>\n          <li>A dip in week two<\/li>\n          <li>Catching a cold or two<\/li>\n        <\/ul>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"fill art a-y\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/stagingloom.com\/elc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/lead-elc-art-sunflower.webp\" alt=\"A painted sunflower\" width=\"360\" height=\"681\" loading=\"lazy\"><span class=\"tag\">Growing, day by day<\/span><\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 2 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec why\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <span class=\"kick\">Preparation<\/span>\n    <h2>Before the first day<\/h2>\n    <p class=\"lead-p\" style=\"max-width:880px;\">Before the first day, visit the centre together, meet the educators, talk positively about what will happen, and practise short separations with trusted people. Share your child's routines, comfort items and any worries with the room, so educators can make the first days feel familiar.<\/p>\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;\">\n      <p>Visit more than once. A tour, then one or two short orientation visits with you in the room, turns a strange place into a known one.<\/p>\n      <p>Talk about daycare in simple, cheerful terms. \"You'll play with blocks and eat lunch with your friends, then Mummy will pick you up after afternoon tea.\"<\/p>\n      <p>Show photos of the centre, the room and the educators if you have them. Looking at them together at bedtime makes the place feel familiar before your child even walks in.<\/p>\n      <p>Picture books about starting care help young children rehearse the idea safely. Read them in the weeks before, not just the night before.<\/p>\n      <p>Practise small separations. An hour with a grandparent or friend shows your child that you go and you come back.<\/p>\n      <p>Practise the morning routine a few times before the real start. Getting dressed, breakfast, packing the bag and the drive all become familiar steps rather than a rush of new ones.<\/p>\n      <p>Tell the educators everything that helps: how your child falls asleep, the words they use for the toilet, what calms them, and their favourite song.<\/p>\n      <p>Choose a comfort item and let your child help pack it. A small blanket or soft toy that smells of home is powerful at rest time.<\/p>\n      <p>Adjust your own routine too. Work out how long the morning really takes, including parking and signing in, and add a buffer for the first week.<\/p>\n      <p>Keep the week around the start calm. If you can, avoid starting care in the same week as a house move, a new sibling or a big trip.<\/p>\n      <p>At our centre, parents are welcome to stay during orientation sessions, and educators build a transition plan with each family before the first full day.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 3 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <span class=\"kick\">Walk the morning<\/span>\n    <h2>The drop-off routine that works<\/h2>\n    <p class=\"lead-p\" style=\"max-width:880px;\">A drop-off routine that works is short, warm and the same every time: arrive calmly, put the bag away together, hand over to a familiar educator, say a clear goodbye with a promise of when you will return, and leave. The whole thing takes about five minutes once you have practised it.<\/p>\n    <div class=\"tbl-wrap\">\n      <table class=\"ratio agetbl dropt\">\n        <caption>A sample drop-off, start to finish<\/caption>\n        <thead><tr><th>Time<\/th><th>What you do<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>\n        <tbody>\n          <tr><td>At home<\/td><td>Remind your child where they are going and who they will see today.<\/td><\/tr>\n          <tr><td>Arrival<\/td><td>Sign in, walk to the room together and put the bag and bottle away.<\/td><\/tr>\n          <tr><td>Minute 2<\/td><td>Say hello to the educator and mention anything important, such as a bad night.<\/td><\/tr>\n          <tr><td>Minute 3<\/td><td>Help your child choose a first activity or join the educator at a table.<\/td><\/tr>\n          <tr><td>Minute 4<\/td><td>A hug, your goodbye words, and \"I'll be back after afternoon tea.\"<\/td><\/tr>\n          <tr><td>Minute 5<\/td><td>Hand over to the educator and walk out, even if there are tears.<\/td><\/tr>\n        <\/tbody>\n      <\/table>\n    <\/div>\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;\">\n      <p>Arrive early enough not to rush; ten spare minutes makes a surprising difference to how calm everyone feels at the door. Children pick up on a hurried, stressed parent immediately.<\/p>\n      <p>Use the same goodbye words every day. A little ritual, like two kisses and a wave at the window, gives children something predictable to hold on to.<\/p>\n      <p>Give your child a small job at arrival, like hanging up the hat or choosing the first puzzle. Having something to do eases the moment of separation.<\/p>\n      <p>Tie your return to the day, not the clock. Young children do not understand \"5 o'clock\", but they understand \"after afternoon tea\".<\/p>\n      <p>Hand over to a person, not a room. Seeing you pass them to a named educator helps your child feel safe.<\/p>\n      <p>Keep your own feelings in check at the door, then let them out in the car. A calm, confident goodbye tells your child this place is safe.<\/p>\n      <p>Consistency across adults matters. If two parents or a grandparent share drop-offs, agree on the same routine and the same words, so your child gets one clear message.<\/p>\n      <p>On mornings that go badly, reset rather than rescue. Stay calm, finish the goodbye, and trust that a hard start does not mean a hard day.<\/p>\n      <p>Pick-up matters too. Greet your child warmly, ask the educator how the day went, and avoid hanging around so long that leaving becomes a new battle.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 4 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec prog\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <span class=\"kick\">Tears happen<\/span>\n    <h2>Handling tears without prolonging them<\/h2>\n    <p class=\"lead-p\" style=\"max-width:880px;\">To handle tears without prolonging them, acknowledge the feeling, keep your goodbye short, and leave with confidence. Coming back after saying goodbye, or waiting until your child stops crying, usually makes the next drop-off harder, because your child learns that crying brings you back.<\/p>\n    <div class=\"say\">\n      <div class=\"try\"><b>Try saying<\/b>\n        <ul>\n          <li>\"You feel sad. I will miss you too.\"<\/li>\n          <li>\"Sam will look after you, and I'll be back after afternoon tea.\"<\/li>\n          <li>\"Two kisses and a wave, then I'm off to work.\"<\/li>\n          <li>\"Tell me about the blocks when I pick you up.\"<\/li>\n        <\/ul>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"avoid\"><b>Try to avoid<\/b>\n        <ul>\n          <li>Sneaking out while your child is distracted<\/li>\n          <li>Coming back in after saying goodbye<\/li>\n          <li>\"Big kids don't cry\"<\/li>\n          <li>Promising a treat for not crying<\/li>\n        <\/ul>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;\">\n      <p>Sneaking out might avoid tears today, but it can make children anxious and watchful tomorrow, because they never know when you will disappear.<\/p>\n      <p>Offering a small bribe to stop crying tends to backfire. It teaches that drop-off is something to be compensated for, rather than an ordinary part of the day.<\/p>\n      <p>Naming the feeling helps. Children cope better when their sadness is acknowledged rather than dismissed.<\/p>\n      <p>A transition object can help: a photo of the family in the bag, or a parent's scarf to hold at rest time, gives a tangible link to home through the day.<\/p>\n      <p>Trust the educator to take over. Comforting upset children is a core part of their job, and they have done it many times.<\/p>\n      <p>Ask for an update, and say how you would like to receive it, whether that is a quick app message or a phone call. A quick message or photo once your child has settled saves you a morning of worry.<\/p>\n      <p>If tears are still intense after several weeks, talk to the room leader. A different drop-off time or routine sometimes makes a big difference.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 5 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec\">\n  <div class=\"wrap split\">\n    <div>\n      <span class=\"kick\">Inside the room<\/span>\n      <h2>What educators do behind the scenes<\/h2>\n      <p class=\"lead-p\">Behind the scenes, educators work hard to help each new child feel safe. They learn your child's cues and routines, stay close in the first days, offer favourite activities, use comfort items and familiar songs, and keep you informed, so trust builds quickly between your child and the room.<\/p>\n      <p>One or two educators often take the lead with a new child, so there is a consistent face to go to.<\/p>\n      <p>They follow the routines you shared, from how your baby is settled to sleep to the song your toddler likes at rest time.<\/p>\n      <p>They plan activities around your child's interests, so the room has something inviting on day one.<\/p>\n      <p>They pace the day for newcomers. A new child might join a small group activity rather than a noisy whole-room one, or have lunch next to the same educator each day.<\/p>\n      <p>They notice the small wins, like a first smile, a first shared toy or a first full nap, and pass those on so you can see progress.<\/p>\n      <p>They watch closely and share what they see: when your child laughed, what they ate, who they played beside.<\/p>\n      <p>With us, each room keeps its own team, updates and photos come through the KinderM8 app, and we talk face to face at drop-off and pick-up.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"stack\">\n      <div class=\"side card\">\n        <p class=\"side-h\">Educator strategies<\/p>\n        <ul class=\"ticks\">\n          <li>A consistent key educator<\/li>\n          <li>Home routines copied in the room<\/li>\n          <li>Favourite activities ready<\/li>\n          <li>Comfort items close at hand<\/li>\n          <li>Regular updates to you<\/li>\n        <\/ul>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"fill\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/stagingloom.com\/elc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/lead-elc-educators-outdoor-playground.webp\" alt=\"Two educators with young children outdoors\" width=\"900\" height=\"1350\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 6 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec why\" id=\"lelc-settle-time\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <span class=\"kick\">Settling timeline<\/span>\n    <h2>Week one, week two, week four<\/h2>\n    <p class=\"lead-p\" style=\"max-width:880px;\">In week one, most children are curious or tearful and very tired. In week two, many have a wobble as the routine sinks in. By week four, the majority are joining in, eating, resting and greeting educators, with shorter or no tears at drop-off. Every child is different, but this pattern is typical.<\/p>\n    <ol class=\"tline\" style=\"margin-top:22px;\">\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Before<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>Visits together<\/h3><p>Short orientation visits with you nearby. Your child explores while you stay close.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Week 1<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>New and tiring<\/h3><p>Curiosity, some tears, big naps and early bedtimes. Short days can help.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Week 2<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>The wobble<\/h3><p>The novelty wears off and protests can grow. Keep the routine exactly the same.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Week 3<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>Finding a place<\/h3><p>Tears shorten. A favourite educator, activity or friend often appears.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Week 4<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>Settling in<\/h3><p>Eating, resting and joining in. Many children now walk in happily most days.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n      <li><span class=\"tm\">Week 6+<\/span><div class=\"tx card\"><h3>At home<\/h3><p>Talking about friends, asking to go. Occasional wobbles after holidays or illness.<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n    <\/ol>\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;margin-top:22px;\">\n      <p>Celebrate progress, however small. Tell your child you noticed they waved goodbye, or ate all their lunch, so they know the good bits are seen too.<\/p>\n      <p>Expect a reset after breaks. A week of holidays or illness can bring back a few tears, but children usually re-settle within days.<\/p>\n      <p>More days can mean faster settling. Children attending two or three days a week often adjust more quickly than those coming once.<\/p>\n      <p>Siblings can help or hinder. An older brother or sister at the same centre can be a comfort, but some children settle better when drop-off is just about them.<\/p>\n      <p>Tiredness is real. Group care is busy and stimulating, so early nights and a slower weekend help in the first month.<\/p>\n      <p>Behaviour at home can change for a while. Some children are clingy, others more irritable or tearful at bedtime. Extra cuddles and predictable evenings help them work through the change.<\/p>\n      <p>Keep notes if it helps. A few words each day about drop-off, eating and sleep make it easy to see progress you might otherwise miss.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 7 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <span class=\"kick\">Worth a conversation<\/span>\n    <h2>When to be concerned<\/h2>\n    <p class=\"lead-p\" style=\"max-width:880px;\">Be concerned if, after six to eight weeks, your child is still distressed for long periods during the day, not eating or resting at the centre, losing skills they had at home, or showing marked changes in sleep or behaviour. None of these mean care has failed, but they are worth a conversation.<\/p>\n    <div style=\"max-width:880px;\">\n      <p>Start with the room leader. Ask what they see through the day, not just at drop-off, and agree a plan together.<\/p>\n      <p>Check the practical things first. Is your child unwell, overtired or hungry at drop-off? Sometimes a simple fix, like an earlier bedtime or a bigger breakfast, changes the whole morning.<\/p>\n      <p>Small changes can help: a different arrival time, a different educator at drop-off, fewer or more days, or a slower build-up to full days.<\/p>\n      <p>Keep an eye on sleep and appetite at home. A child who is sleeping and eating reasonably well is usually coping, even if drop-off is still bumpy.<\/p>\n      <p>Look at the bigger picture. Illness, teething, a new sibling or changes at home can all show up as unsettledness at care.<\/p>\n      <p>Ask to observe or to have a longer conversation with the educators. A good centre will welcome your questions and share honestly what it is seeing.<\/p>\n      <p>Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong beyond normal adjustment, raise it early and ask direct questions.<\/p>\n      <p>Some children need extra support. If there are concerns about development, speech or behaviour, educators can work with you and with health professionals. Allied health workers, such as speech and occupational therapists, can support children in the room at our centre.<\/p>\n      <p>If you ever have a concern about care or safety that is not resolved by the centre, you can contact the NSW Department of Education, which regulates childcare services.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ H2 8 ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec prog\">\n  <div class=\"wrap split\">\n    <div>\n      <span class=\"kick\">You matter too<\/span>\n      <h2>Looking after yourself through it<\/h2>\n      <p class=\"lead-p\">Looking after yourself matters, because settling is emotional for parents too. Guilt, worry and even relief are all normal. Plan something steady for the first mornings, lean on your partner or friends, stay in touch with educators, and remind yourself that a few weeks of adjustment lead to years of learning and friendship.<\/p>\n      <p>Expect mixed feelings. Missing your child and enjoying time back at work can happen on the same day.<\/p>\n      <p>Plan the first mornings. A coffee with a friend or a walk before work gives you somewhere to put the feelings.<\/p>\n      <p>Ask for updates, then trust them. A photo of your child playing is often all you need.<\/p>\n      <p>Share the drop-offs if you can. Children sometimes separate more easily from one parent than the other.<\/p>\n      <p>Talk to other parents at pick-up. Everyone has a first-week story, and most end well.<\/p>\n      <p>If low mood or anxiety lingers well beyond the settling period, you do not have to manage it alone. <a href=\"https:\/\/panda.org.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PANDA<\/a> offers free support for parents of young children, and your GP is a good first call.<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"stack\">\n      <div class=\"side card\">\n        <p class=\"side-h\">For the first week<\/p>\n        <ul class=\"ticks\">\n          <li>A calm plan after drop-off<\/li>\n          <li>Notifications on for updates<\/li>\n          <li>Early nights for everyone<\/li>\n          <li>Someone to talk it through with<\/li>\n        <\/ul>\n      <\/div>\n      <div class=\"fill art a-g\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/stagingloom.com\/elc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/lead-elc-art-flower.webp\" alt=\"A bright painted flower\" width=\"500\" height=\"509\" loading=\"lazy\"><span class=\"tag\">Be kind to yourself<\/span><\/div>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<!-- ============ FAQ ============ -->\n<section class=\"sec why\">\n  <div class=\"wrap\">\n    <div style=\"text-align:center;max-width:780px;margin:0 auto;\">\n      <span class=\"kick\">Common questions<\/span>\n      <p class=\"fqh\">Settling in, answered<\/p>\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"faqwrap\">\n      <details class=\"fq\">\n        <summary>How long does settling take?<span class=\"pm\">+<\/span><\/summary>\n        <div class=\"ans\"><p>Most children settle within two to six weeks, though some take longer and a few settle in days. Age, temperament, how many days they attend and whether they have been cared for by others before all make a difference. Short tears at drop-off can continue even after a child is happy for the rest of the day.<\/p><\/div>\n      <\/details>\n      <details class=\"fq\">\n        <summary>Should I sneak out?<span class=\"pm\">+<\/span><\/summary>\n        <div class=\"ans\"><p>No, it is better not to sneak out, even though it avoids tears in the moment. Children who find their parent suddenly gone can become more anxious and watchful at the next drop-off. A short, clear goodbye with a promise of when you will return builds trust instead.<\/p><\/div>\n      <\/details>\n      <details class=\"fq\">\n        <summary>What if my child cries all day?<span class=\"pm\">+<\/span><\/summary>\n        <div class=\"ans\"><p>If your child seems to cry all day, ask the educators what they see, because tears often stop soon after parents leave. 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